This week we introduce Concept #2 Attunement – Parents setting their feelings and reactions aside, to perceive the child’s behavior through the child’s eyes. Parents should try to state the child’s needs to him/her without judgment, but with perspective. A common example of this might be when your child wants your attention and may engage in behavior to get your attention, such as hitting, interrupting a conversation, or intentionally doing something that is not acceptable. In this case, an example of attunement may be to say to your child, “I think you need me to…..” rather than saying “You know you are not supposed to interrupt when I’m talking”. We want to recognize and acknowledge the child’s needs, not focus on the behavior. This can be especially challenging for parents. Put this concept to work this week and see what type of response you get from your child!
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